For grieving children, and the grown-ups who love them
Small steps through big feelings
Gentle activities, workshops you do together, and clear guidance for parents and schools. Made for children from 3 to 17, built on what grief research shows really helps.
Free to start. No ads. Nothing to download. Children can only join through a parent.
Meet the helpers
Six helpers to help your child through this journey
Each one helps with something different, so children always know who to go to.
Bo
a paper boat who carries memories and messages
Nim
a little cloud who knows all about feelings
Pebble
a smooth stone who helps you feel calm and steady
Sprout
a seedling who helps you remember and grow
Glim
a small star who shines for the people we miss
Munch
a friendly monster who eats worries
For families
Your guide, and their own space
A guide matched to your child's age and who died, plus a private space for them, with a gentle weekly view for you.
Together
Workshops to do side by side
Fill a memory jar, make a sky full of memories, build a quiz about the person you've lost. Talking, making, remembering.
For schools
A school pack for teachers
What to do in the first days, scripts for telling the class, a return-to-school plan, lesson plans and letters.
For children
Things to do, feel and make
32 interactive activities, a few minutes each. Every one has a version to make at home, and a line on why it helps.
Feelings weather
What's the weather like inside you today?
3–5 · 6–8 · 9–12 · 13–17
Feed the worry monster
Munch eats worries, so you don't have to carry them alone.
3–5 · 6–8 · 9–12
Memory box
Keep your favourite memories of them safe.
3–5 · 6–8 · 9–12 · 13–17
Balloon breathing
Breathe in calm, like filling a big balloon.
3–5 · 6–8 · 9–12 · 13–17
Fizzy feelings
What happens when feelings get shaken up and bottled in?
6–8 · 9–12
A letter to someone who died
Write to them, then fold it into a paper boat.
6–8 · 9–12 · 13–17
Together workshops
Remember them, together
Short guided sessions for a grown-up and child to do side by side. Keeping a connection with someone who has died is healthy, and doing it together helps you both.
Our memory jar
Pour your memories of them into a jar, one colour at a time, until it's full.
A sky full of memories
Light a star for each memory of them, and join them into a constellation that's all yours.
Grow a memory garden
Plant a flower for each thing they loved, and watch your garden bloom.
How well do we know they?
Make a quiz all about them together, then take turns guessing the answers.
For every kind of loss
Whoever they're missing
Guidance changes with who died, and gives extra care when a death was sudden, violent or by suicide.
Safe by design, because they're children
- Only parents can set it up. Children never give their surname, birthday or photo.
- No ads, no tracking, no chat, no strangers, no streaks.
- A help button on every screen, with real helplines.
- If a child writes something worrying, they get help straight away and you get an alert, without seeing their words.