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Remembering · 10 min

Memory box

Keep your favourite memories of them safe.

What do you want to remember about them? Pick a starter, then write it down.

Add a memory

Maya's memory box

Something we did together

Feeding the ducks at the park on Sundays

Something funny they did

He pretended his biscuit was a phone

Ideas for a real box at home: a photo, something they wore, a recipe, a voice message, a card they wrote. Things that smell like them are special too.

Why this helps

Collecting memories and special objects keeps a healthy connection with the person who died and stops memories fading.

For ages 3 to 5, ages 6 to 8, ages 9 to 12, ages 13 to 17.

Adapted from Child Bereavement UK's activity ideas for grieving children.

Make it at home

You need: A shoebox, Paper, paint, stickers, Things that remind you of them

  1. 1Decorate the outside of the box however you like.
  2. 2Fill it with photos, cards, something they wore, a recipe, tickets from places you went.
  3. 3Add little notes about each memory.
  4. 4Keep it somewhere special and open it whenever you want.